The Games Narcissists and Abusers Play

So, last month I received a $2,000 bill from my abusive ex-husbands wife. This bill was sent the day after my daughter had dental surgery and had 6 teeth pulled. They are supposed to notify me of any non-emergency surgeries before the event and not after the event. In email, she implies that their attorney was... Continue Reading →

Dealing with Abusive Emails from Father

In my blog, I have mentioned the difficulties of dealing with my abusive ex-husband and also my abusive father. Obviously my relationship with my father had a lot to do with my selecting my abusive ex-husband. My relationship with my dad was very unhealthy, and it was the only example of a relationship I had... Continue Reading →

Tips for Dealing with Abusive Emails

In a previous post Abusive and Controlling Emails - Email Traps, I discussed the situation with my father sending me abusive emails.  Over the past 8 years I have become very experienced in not responding to my ex-husband's abusive emails.  However, here was my father, doing the same thing and I was allowing myself to... Continue Reading →

Accepting Unacceptable Behavior

Okay, so after all the problems I had with my father I decided to give him a call this morning.  In this past post, Abusive and Controlling Email Trap, I explained how my father blew up at me because he believed I was writing a divorce column and advising women to get divorced.  Well as... Continue Reading →

Abusive and Controlling Emails – Email Traps

Trying to Rationalize the Irrational Well, I just had the strangest argument with my father yesterday over the phone.  I mentioned this blog and that I was sharing my personal experiences on this blog.  Somehow the conversation led to my stating I believed a women in a physically abusive relationship should take herself and her children, should... Continue Reading →

Don’t Argue With An Abusive Ex

Don't Argue With An Abusive Ex Last week I sent my abusive ex-husband an email basically stating that I had problems with my father for years for the same stuff he is doing to our daughter.  In my email I stated how similar my father and ex-husband are.  I also said I believed it was... Continue Reading →

Tips to Responding to Abusive Emails

Tips to Responding to Abusive Emails: The nice thing about emails is you have a record on file with dates.  You do not have to respond to the abusive email right away.  It is easier to stay unemotional via email than it is over the phone or in person.  My abusive ex-husband use to bait... Continue Reading →

Abusive Emails – How to Respond

I wanted to post these emails because as ridiculous and abusive as they are you may be dealing with something similar.  Okay, short recap to perhaps explain the context of these emails.  Our daughter, at the age of five, was complaining that her vagina hurt on more than one occasion after coming back from visiting... Continue Reading →

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