Verbal Abuse Recovery
Over the years, I have found a few great tips to deal with abusive emails. These are two great tips and tricks to help you avoid being surprised and also how to respond to the facts. Hopefully these tips are helpful to you too. Abusive Email Tip #1 In most email servers, you can create... Continue Reading →
So, last month I received a $2,000 bill from my abusive ex-husbands wife. This bill was sent the day after my daughter had dental surgery and had 6 teeth pulled. They are supposed to notify me of any non-emergency surgeries before the event and not after the event. In email, she implies that their attorney was... Continue Reading →
In my blog, I have mentioned the difficulties of dealing with my abusive ex-husband and also my abusive father. Obviously my relationship with my father had a lot to do with my selecting my abusive ex-husband. My relationship with my dad was very unhealthy, and it was the only example of a relationship I had... Continue Reading →
In a previous post Abusive and Controlling Emails - Email Traps, I discussed the situation with my father sending me abusive emails. Over the past 8 years I have become very experienced in not responding to my ex-husband's abusive emails. However, here was my father, doing the same thing and I was allowing myself to... Continue Reading →
So I am having problems with my father again after I made the decision to call him and he blasted me. You can read one of the first abusive emails from my father. Then good God, okay so he called me again and I pick up the phone. What is wrong with me? Now... Continue Reading →
Okay, so after all the problems I had with my father I decided to give him a call this morning. In this past post, Abusive and Controlling Email Trap, I explained how my father blew up at me because he believed I was writing a divorce column and advising women to get divorced. Well as... Continue Reading →
So as I discussed in my previous emails regarding my father's email with his topic of 'You, you you... but this is about God' and how familiar this was sounding to emails from my ex-husband. One of the emails I received years ago were regarding sending our daughter to therapy because she was having tantrums,... Continue Reading →
Anyone reading this email can catch the first half by reading the post from yesterday titled Abusive and Controlling Emails - Email Traps. Okay, so I decided this email was worth posting because this is simply an abusive email by someone I know, in this case my father. I am also able to recognize the... Continue Reading →
Trying to Rationalize the Irrational Well, I just had the strangest argument with my father yesterday over the phone. I mentioned this blog and that I was sharing my personal experiences on this blog. Somehow the conversation led to my stating I believed a women in a physically abusive relationship should take herself and her children, should... Continue Reading →
Don't Argue With An Abusive Ex Last week I sent my abusive ex-husband an email basically stating that I had problems with my father for years for the same stuff he is doing to our daughter. In my email I stated how similar my father and ex-husband are. I also said I believed it was... Continue Reading →
When I was first divorced from my abusive ex-husband I was extremely afraid of him. He made many threats and acted on only a few. In my situation my ex-husband is really nothing but a bully, all bark and no bite. Warning: I will say if you are receiving threats please do not dismiss them as... Continue Reading →
Tips to Responding to Abusive Emails: The nice thing about emails is you have a record on file with dates. You do not have to respond to the abusive email right away. It is easier to stay unemotional via email than it is over the phone or in person. My abusive ex-husband use to bait... Continue Reading →
I wanted to post these emails because as ridiculous and abusive as they are you may be dealing with something similar. Okay, short recap to perhaps explain the context of these emails. Our daughter, at the age of five, was complaining that her vagina hurt on more than one occasion after coming back from visiting... Continue Reading →
