Healing the Emotional Scars

My daughter has admitted that her father continues to say horrible things about me, and she just tunes him out. However, having seen her self-inflicted cuts on the side of her thigh/hip and it does not appear she has tuned it out. How much emotional scarring has this abusive relationship caused in my daughter after... Continue Reading →

Generational Effects of Abuse

This is a story of domestic abuse and how it often runs in families. The cycle of abuse is a tough one to break unless you begin to understand the facts about abuse.  Domestic abuse has more than one face and can affect you in many ways, including unknowingly teaching your children, by example, to... Continue Reading →

Ending the Cycle of Abuse

One of my greatest fears is if my daughter picks someone like her dad who is abusive.  My grandmother and mother picked husbands exhibiting abusive behavior very similar to my ex-husband. My parents divorced when  I was about three years old.  My father began using me to abuse my mother when I was four or five and... Continue Reading →

How Did I Meet The Abuser – 4

After moving into this apartment I eventually grew tired of the controlling behavior.  He would also become extremely belligerent when he drank.  I broke up with him and moved out into my own apartment and felt very peaceful.  The problem was I was lonely... at that time I was not comfortable being alone.   After dating... Continue Reading →

How Did I Meet The Abuser – 2

So it is strange because I am posting this in order but it will appear backwards to anyone reading this. Okay so I met him and thought he was pretty special. The real problem was that I did not think I was special. Things seemed okay at first, I thought. (personal low self esteem issue)... Continue Reading →

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